“Who says we have to participate in negative thoughts around the economy?”

I have had to good fortune to have some time off to play in the last several weeks.

I have to admit though everywhere I went there has been talk about the Canadian and American economy.

 

It’s been a little more challenging than usual to stay totally focused on having fun in the past few weeks. The condition of our economy has certainly gotten my attention, and I’ve been asked a lot questions about how to stay positive in the midst of all the economic issues we’re facing at the moment.

 

My reply is simple and straight forward.  When you cannot count on the economy, direct your attention to what you can count on.

 

 Yourself!

 

Now is not the time to be frightened. Or to be sitting on the sidelines waiting for things to happen.

 

 It’s time to get focused. Your edge in this economy is focus.  This is when you should be steadily applying what you knowing works towards your goals and dreams.

 

Be your own leader!

The most important quality of leadership for women, the one quality for which you want to be known, is extraordinary performance in this economy, with the goal of achieving extraordinary results. These results then serve as an inspiration to others to perform at equally exceptional levels. People credit leadership to those women who they feel can most enable them to achieve important goals or objectives.

We develop great perceptions of those women we can count on to help us achieve what is important to us. Women, who have great sales records in their business, develop influence in the minds and hearts of their coworkers and staff. They are spoken about in the most positive manner. This is your leading edge in this economy.

Women who are responsible for companies or small businesses that achieve high levels of profitability also develop charisma. They are perceived by others to be exceptional women who are talented and their services are sought after. Their flaws are frequently overlooked, while their strong points are overemphasized. They become what are called “charismatic.”

Charisma actually comes from working on YOU!

 

This is another component of your leading edge in this economy.

 

 It comes from liking and accepting yourself totally as you do and say the specific things that develop within you an influential personality.

When you set clear goals and become single-minded and focused, backing those goals with unshakable self-confidence, you develop charisma. When you are passionate and eager about what you are doing, when you are completely committed to achieving something meaningful, you radiate charisma. When you take the time to learn and become at skilled at what you do, and then prepare completely for any opportunity to use your knowledge, skill or talent, the perception that others have of you goes straight up.

When you take total responsibility and accept ownership, without making excuses or blaming others, you experience a sense of control that leads to the personal power that is the basis of charisma. When you look like a winner in every respect, when you have the kind of external image that others respect, you create your charisma. When you grow your character by setting high goals and then disciplining yourself to live consistent with the highest principles you know, you become the kind of women who is admired and respected. You become the kind of women who radiates charisma to others.

When you focus your energies on achieving the results that you have been hired to achieve, the results that others expect of you, you develop the reputation for performance and achievement that certainly leads to the perception of charisma.

You can develop the kind of charisma that opens doors for you by going to work on yourself, consistently and persistently, and becoming the kind of women everyone can admire and look up to. That’s what charisma is all about.

That is how women will thrive in this economy…

 

 

P.S. My American friends and clients.  Get out there and VOTE!  We are in changing and evolving times and we need you to vote to ensure that the right change comes about.

 

PSS Your vote makes a difference globally.

 

“The Law of Attraction and why this relationship is bound to fail…”

A few months ago, I went to buy a new pair of running shoes.  I like a good, flexible shoe when using the treadmill in my office.  Since there was a line at the store, I decided to sit outside and enjoy the sun until the line got shorter.

 

Next to me sat a couple in their mid-forties.  They were decked out in the latest Nike running gear and appeared very fit and trim.  I was looking at the woman’s running shoes and admiring how great they looked, when it hit me.  I realized that I knew them from one of the marketing groups that I belong to. 

 

I have heard them talk numerous times about their life and their relationship.  The “red flags” about their relationship were going off one after another.  They met on a holiday in Spain and were immediately attracted to one another.  Gayle always wanted a man who was tall, dark, and handsome.  Paul wanted a petite woman who looked after herself, liked sports, and attended sporting events with him.

 

That was the end of their mutual attraction for each other.  Paul came from a very privileged background.  He freely spent money and there appeared to be no end to either the spending or the money.  Gayle grew up in a large family and was raised by her grandmother while her single mother was out working day and night.  She admitted that, from the beginning, she did not understand Paul’s way with money.  They fought constantly about their approach to spending and saving money.

 

Paul loved to start businesses and then sell them once they were up and running.  He talked about them in our marketing group and how he built up his businesses to be very successful, and then he got bored and sold them.

 

This was too much for Gayle.  She felt a strong sense of insecurity around their money and their future with money.  Neither one seemed to understand or appreciate the other’s way of thinking and being around money.  The fights were inevitable and the relationship took a turn for the worse.

 

Sure enough, here they were, sitting outside the fitness store talking about “taking a break” from their three-year marriage.  They decided to split for the time being and see if they could work out their differences.

 

I just attended a marketing meeting yesterday and at the meeting heard that they had applied for a divorce.  What were the red flags that had come up around their initial attraction for each other?

 

Gayle had obviously been physically attracted to Paul and had hoped that there would be enough of a connection to sustain their relationship.  She expected things to just “occur” and did not use the Law of Attraction deliberately or intentionally to change things in her relationship.  She did not want to do the work to change the results she was getting in her relationship with Paul.  Gayle did not want to look at eliminating her limiting beliefs and thoughts around money.

 

What about Paul?  What did he see in her?  He too had been attracted to her physically.  He had a picture of the perfect woman in his mind and she fit that picture perfectly.  Physically, they were a perfect match.  After they got married and the reality of life and their money habits hit… they were not able to understand one another.

 

Unfortunately, this is a breakdown that I see many couples having.  A long time ago, I could tell that they were heading down a very bumpy road.  How could they have turned this around using the Law of Attraction deliberately and intentionally?  They could have sat down and worked out an agreement about money that worked for both of them.  They could have taken a look at their beliefs surrounding money and removed any limiting or negative beliefs.  They could have attracted balance and a strong sense of reality and responsibility to each other and to their spending habits.

 

But this won’t happen… they have decided to move on.  When using the Law of Attraction to attract that perfect partner, go deeper than the looks and appearance of one another to allow you relationship to remain healthy and vibrant.  One tip is to talk about money before getting married.

 

 

Copyright © 2008. Beverly Boston, Eve-olutionAtLast.  All rights reserved.  The author, Beverly Boston, specializes in helping women aged 50 to 55—and other ages as well—attract the perfect partner or relationships.  She can teach you exactly what to do and how to do it using Law of Attraction coaching that gets results.  For more information, please visit http://www.Eve-olutionAtLast.com.

 

 

 

 

“Law of Attraction and dating: He can’t stop talking on his cell phone…”

We decide to enjoy one of our favourite memories of Phoenix while in Vancouver and headed over to the Las Margaritas Restaurant in Vancouver on 1999 West 4th Avenue.  They make some of the best Mexican food in Vancouver and there’s something to be said for simple food that tastes great.  We chose to sit outside, as we wanted to enjoy the warm weather that lasted into the early evening.

The tables are close together and Las Margaritas is usually a very busy restaurant.  Tonight was no exception.  We ordered a drink and sat back and relaxed after a busy week.  At the table next to us, two couples sat together and it appeared they had just arrived, like we had. 

At their table, the fellow was on his cell phone, repeating story after story about a fishing trip he had gone on with his workmates.  His date sat there, looking bored and unhappy.  The other couple was talking about their children and how they were enjoying summer camp over on Victoria Island.  They were unaware of how unhappy the other lady at their table was.

Finally, after about 20 minutes of talking on the phone with one of his buddies, the fellow got off the phone.  They ordered a second round of drinks and then his phone rang again.  Off he went, telling more fishing stories.  In the meantime, his girlfriend sat there fuming.  He talked on the phone, asked her something, and then ignored her answer and continued with his call.  This went on until their food arrived. 

During our entire dinner, I heard her gently complaining that this was their first date and that she did not want to appear selfish and clinging.  She wanted more of his time but she seemed nervous about even asking for more attention.

I coach many women on the Law of Attraction and hear many stories about dating and being in relationships.  I am always observant of people and couples around me and how they are interacting.  How did she attract a first date like this?  What were her beliefs about dating and her own self worth?  Did she notice the red flags with this fellow?  By the end of the evening, he may have spent a full 20 minutes of his attention on her.  Most of the time, he was on his cell phone talking to who knows who.  What should she do?  I know that the answer may be obvious, but this problem may occur again and again unless she takes a look at how she is using the Law of Attraction and attracting these kinds of dates.  Attracting someone who can manage his time and their life together, and make her a priority, would be an improvement. 

Copyright © 2008. Beverly Boston, Eve-olutionAtLast.  All rights reserved.  Beverly Boston specializes in working with women who are looking to attract a perfect partner, opportunities, and great friends.  This is just the beginning!  She can teach you the “how to” on using the Law of Attraction to attract the love of your life.  To find out more about Law of Attraction coaching, simply visit http://LawOfAttractionClearlyExplained.com.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Law of Attraction: Are you in the closet?”

I was contacted on Facebook by a friend of mine who I had not spoken to in many, many years.  God, she looks good!  Time has been so kind to her.  You know the look—the one in which life for that person has been one big vacation.  Now, for you skeptics out there, this look is all natural  

 

We exchanged stories, tears, and laughter during our conversations.  Her life has been one of love, joy, and adventure.  She has had success in every area of her life.  In one of our conversations, she said, “I really like what you’re doing with your life and career and how you are helping so many women using that Law of Attraction thing.”

The alarm bells went off in my head as I heard her say this.  It hit me like a thunderbolt.  Why didn’t I think of it before?  I totally understood where she was coming from.  And it occurred to me…

She is in the closet!

I have to admit that when I realized that she had no idea that she was using the Law of Attraction in such a deliberate way, in ways that people only dream of, my first thought was:

Will coming out of the closet change what she is attracting in her life?

Don’t get me wrong.  I adore her and want only the best for her.  But when it comes to including lots of Law of Attraction “principles” in my calls with friends, I walk a careful line.  Should I out her, I wondered.  Not once in our calls did she reference how she attracted what she attracted by using the Law of Attraction.  I get a lot of feedback from women and clients who use the Law of Attraction.  They love talking about how they attracted this and that, and revel in the stories.  But I had an underlying “hunch” to go slowly with this friend to incorporate how she was using these principles in her life.  And she was attracting such amazing things!  Imagine what she could really attract if she acknowledged the fact that she uses the Law of Attraction.  The good news is that with such new awareness, she could have an even fuller life.  The better news is that she would be able to help more and more people in the world.  This, by the way, was one of her dreams.

I started “outing” her in our calls.  We talked about wickedly fun things to attract and, in some cases, the biggest things you could ever imagine.  I encouraged her to think BIG.  Now that she knew more about the Law of Attraction principles, she realized that she had been living this way her entire life.

But… it’s funny…

Now that she knows how easy it is for her to attract what she wants, she now thinks about how she can have an impact on others and on those she loves.  How can she start to make this a better world and use what she knows to improve lives?    

In my opinion, my friend is a first-class act.  I know that many of my readers have heard me talk about her before and how she has attracted more freedom and flexibility in her life.  Sometimes, we get so carried away by the excitement of what we want to attract into our lives that we forget about the rest of the world and how we can help others.  In her case, she is focusing on helping others.

I have chosen to let her come out at her own pace.  She wrote me a wonderful email and said she is “using the Law of Attraction thing in broader applications to the world that I live in, and what an incredible experience I am having with it all.”  Note that she has started using the words “Law of Attraction”

Ultimately, we can all choose the amount of disclosure that is comfortable for us around using the Law of Attraction.  Ultimately, I believe that we should each respect our internal comfort level when it comes to disclosing how the Law of Attraction is working for us.  Be proud of who you are, and know how “open” is too “open” for you and your sharing of the Law of Attraction.

 Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. All Rights Reserved. If you enjoyed this article, you can learn more about how I help women ages 50 to 55—and other ages as well—who are struggling because they continually and repeatedly attract the wrong kinds of clients and opportunities and don’t know why.  I help women attract the right clients, referrals, and opportunities, plus much, much more.  And this is only the beginning!  For more information about Law of Attraction Coaching, go to http://www.Eve-olutionAtLast.com or call 604-727-4363 now while you are thinking about it.

 

“Law of Attraction and When Your Business Grinds to a Halt…”

One of my favorite places to visit is a bookstore.  On this day, I was picking up our dry cleaning and dropped into Chapters, our local bookstore in Vancouver.  I just cannot resist checking out “what is new” on the bookshelves.  While glancing through the new books, I overheard a cell phone conversation that the woman standing next to me was having.

The woman was screaming into the phone about how her business had ground to a halt, and “what the hell” was she going to do about it.  She was so wound up from ranting on the phone that her veins were popping out of her forehead.  Apparently, she was speaking to her assistant and they had just lost another major contract that week.

Being a Law of Attraction coach, I have worked with women entrepreneurs and solo-preneurs who have been in business for a while.  They come to me because their business grinds to a halt from time to time, and they cannot figure out why and how they attracted such a situation.

Some of these women were in a panic and were feeling desperate.  They seemed to attract more and more negative things to their businesses.  They appeared to be on a downward spiral—just like this woman on the cell phone next to me.  They were surprised and shocked when they repeatedly attracted negative clients, situations or opportunities. 

I remember some of the situations that I have coached women through:

• A woman invested about $21,000 worth of her time designing a workshop, CDs, and a workbook for one of her clients.  The week before she was going to present the materials to her client, she received a call: “The project has been cancelled.  We have just gone into bankruptcy.”
• My business partner cleaned out our bank account and left me with six-figure debt.  The partner had been playing with the numbers for years, which all came out when they applied for a new bank loan and their business was audited.

How do you tell women that they are responsible for attracting these situations?  People rarely want to hear that.  Some women only take credit for the positive things that they have attracted to their business.  The Law of Attraction is working all the time, every single minute of every single day, whether we know it or not—and, whether we like it or not!

How do you recover using the Law of Attraction?

1. Surrender.  This sounds simple… I know.  You need to surrender before you can start using the Law of Attraction deliberately and intentionally.  If these women—including the woman on the cell phone—keep telling their stories to the world, they will continue to attract more of the same because, by doing so, they are giving attention, energy, and focus to the very thing they don’t want.  Instead, smile… change your focus and intentions to what you do want.  Both of the women in the previous situations turned their lives and businesses completely around using Law of Attraction principles, tips, scripts, and strategies.
2. Attract trusted allies and supporters.  Start focusing on the kinds of people, opportunities, and situations for your business that you really want.  Think about what it is that you are looking for, and start attracting powerful, positive, integrity-driven people.
3. Know that the Law of Attraction is the quickest path to attracting the right people, situations, and opportunities when used intentionally and deliberately in a positive way.  Get focused on one area at a time.  This will help relieve your fear and desperation over your business.  Do you want to create a business that has a consistent flow of clients, money, and opportunities?  Start creating financial opportunities that excite you and will keep your business flourishing in any kind of market or economy.

How can you use the Law of Attraction to enjoy what these women did in their business?

1.      Be extremely generous with your time, resources, and referrals.  This mindset is one of abundance and generosity.  The Universe is abundant and has a lot to offer with your name on it.  Get out there and attract it right now by first giving to start the receiving process.

2.      Use the Law of Attraction to avoid getting into a rut in your business.  Always be working on the next phase of your development, which can include new products, programs, services or markets.  Always think BIG for your business and about what you might like to attract next.  This will help you to stay out of a rut and in the flow.

3.      Keep your eyes wide open about your market and about attracting new and exciting opportunities.  There are so many opportunities out there for you to attract.  You will find that, when you shift your energy around and focus on attracting what you want—and more of it—this works like MAGIC.

Cultivate a mindset of abundance.  When you change your thinking, you change your results.  What stories are you telling yourself or the people around you about your business?  Are you more energized when you talk about what you want and the direction you want to go in?  Or, are you too focused on what you don’t want? 

 

I was checking out the book by Brian Tracy, Ways to Wealth, and reading the back cover when the woman on the cell phone slammed her phone on the bookshelf and broke its cover.

 

What do you think she will attract more of for the rest of her day?  Her week?  Maybe even in her life, if she does not shift her energy and her way of thinking.  I would love to help show her how easy it is to change the results that she is getting.  Yet, before I could say a word to her, she stormed off, cursing the store, the phone, and the world.

 

Darn!  I got into my car and realized that I had been thinking about the poor woman and forgot to purchase the book before I left the bookstore.  Next time!

 

Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. All Rights Reserved. If you liked this article, you can learn more about how I help women ages 50 to 55—and other ages as well—who are struggling because they continually and repeatedly attract the wrong kinds of clients and opportunities, and don’t know why. I help women attract the right clients, referrals, and opportunities, plus much, much more. And this is only the beginning! For more information go to http://www.Eve-olutionAtLast.com or call 604-727-4363 now while you are thinking about it.

 

 

 

“Law of Attraction and How I know this relationship won’t last…”

We went out for dinner the other night with some friends that we had met at a Smokey Robinson concert.  We were instantly attracted to one another as we are all music lovers and grew up on Motown Music. Our conversation was in between sets and long breaks. After the concert I suggested that we get together for dinner and the four of us could get to know each other in a different setting.

 

We agreed upon eating at the Cin Cin Restaurant in Vancouver on Robson Street.  This way we could spend a lovely evening over dinner that would be in a classy atmosphere with some pampering, great food and conversation.

 

Ian and Jane had just started dating. Jane mentioned that she had some self limiting beliefs around getting back into the dating world and was a little uneasy about meeting someone. Jane told us “she really did not believe that at her age (47 years old) she would meet anyone of quality.”  Jane met Ian at the car show in Vancouver while looking for a new Audi.

 

Ian was very fit and lean.  Ian struck me as someone who spent a lot of time working out.  Ian filled out a shirt very nicely and I could tell that he was proud of his physique.  Up to this point I had little conversation with him.  Once Ian started speaking he came across as…arrogant.  When Ian spoke you knew that he thought he was “really something” and Jane was really lucky to meet someone like him.

 

At this point I thought it was time to order a glass of wine.  This could be a long dinner.  Everything that came out of his mouth was boasting or self-serving.  Finally our main course came and we all got down to enjoying the fabulous food. At least while eating and stuffing his mouth he would not be able to talk. Okay I admit he was a bit much!

 

I could hardly wait for the evening to end.  This type of person is really hard to be around.  We got up to leave and Jane appeared to want to stay forever.  Jane asked if we would stay for dessert. We agreed.  Okay!  I reluctantly agreed to stay. Whenever I looked up at her she was grinning ear to ear. How in the world did she attract an oaf like him?

 

I watched Jane as we waited for dessert.  She decided to have some ice cream and appeared to want to make this evening last as long as possible. This allowed for more time to learn about what she saw in Ian.  He was handsome that was for sure.  He appeared to have a good career and was apparently successful in his field.  However, his beliefs and personality were just off.

 

I sat there and listened to Ian and alarm bells were going off.  Yet when I looked at Jane she had a look of love on her face.  I could almost read her mind.  She was already thinking of their wedding day. By the way that she spoke she had a completely different picture of their future together than Ian did. She spoke as if Ian would be so much fun to go out with and do a lot of things together.  They would travel, explore, have fun and enjoy nice dinners together.

 

Meanwhile Ian is cracking mean jokes about marriage and how controlling it is and only how “dumb men” go that route. Ian was dead set against marriage and if you really listened to him you could hear it loud and clear.  Jane was laughing while he made his jokes and had yet to realize that this was how Ian really felt about marriage.

 

I have worked with the Law of Attraction and EFT (emotional freedom technique) for long enough to know when someone has some serious limiting beliefs. It is a technique used to release negative emotions such as fear, anxiety and self-doubt from your body’s energy field. This allows you to transform limiting beliefs comfortably without focusing on the past.  And I could tell that this man has some serious issues and beliefs around commitment.

 

It was alarming to know that Jane was hearing something completely different. Yet this is who Jane attracted into her life.  You are responsible for what you attract, whether it is good or bad. What was going on inside of Jane’s head that caused her to attract a man like Ian?  What beliefs did she hold around relationships and commitment? We ended the evening with us saying goodbye and then going home.  Jane and Ian were apparently going back to his place.

 

I’ve met a lot of women like Jane.  They have some limiting beliefs around self worth or feel that they are not good enough.  They date a man like Ian until he decides to leave. Or they get so fed up that they just give up and accept things the way they are.

 

 

What could Jane do differently?  Jane could find out what her limiting beliefs around dating and marriage are and then clear those beliefs. Jane could use the Law of Attraction and EFT and attract a perfect match for her.  I have great hope for Jane.  I liked her and believe that when this relationship ends, and it will, she will realize that she needs to work on her beliefs and clear the path to attract a relationship that will be mutual…a relationship in which both individuals have the same long term goals.

 

I wouldn’t be surprised if Jane calls me one day!  I hope she does.

 

 

 

Copyright © 2008. Beverly Boston, Eve-olutionAtLast, All rights reserved. Beverly Boston specializes in working with women ages 50-55 and other ages as well, who are looking to attract a perfect partner, opportunities, and great friends. This is just the beginning. She can teach you the “how to” on using the Law of Attraction to attract the love of your life. To find out more and get her FREE reports simply visit http://LawOfAttractionClearlyExplained.com .

 

 

“Law of Attraction After a messy breakup: Is there more than one partner meant for you?”

I saw commercial the other night with one of the American Idol contestants.  It make me think about one of the nights that some friends and I got together to watch American Idol.  They were down to the last three singers on the show.  It was a real toss up to hear who would win. We were glued to the TV set to hear David Cook, David Archuleta and Syesha Mercado sing. We playfully argued who was the best and why they would win.

 

On one of the breaks my friend Denise started to cry. She met a man a little over two years ago at a baseball game.  Denise and Dave started dating and quickly fell in love.  They had a lot in common and the relationship appeared to have real promise.  Denise felt like she had attracted the man of her dreams.

 

About 9 months ago Denise had a fabulous career.  She worked for Microsoft and loved what she did.  Then one day she lost her job due to an area of the company being downsized.  Denise was really connected with her career. She became depressed and her self esteem started to suffer. She started complaining more and more about every area of her life.  This included complaining about Dave.

 

This created many fights between them and before you know it Dave left her.  This caused Denise to go into a further tailspin.  She started to appear unkempt and frumpy looking which was so unlike her.  Denise started criticizing everything that Dave was doing.  Denise would embarrass Dave in front of their friends by complaining about how cheap he was when going out on dates. She said, “Now that I am out of a job shouldn’t he be picking up the tab?”

 

 

They did get together a few times to find out if they could patch things up and make the relationship work. Denise wanted to show Dave that she could go back to her old self and be the woman that he first met.  However, once they got back together the same old fights had started up again. This time around, the fights were really bad and the words and accusations were flying.  The only thing that had changed since Dave had left was that Denise wanted him back so that she could get one area of her life working.  Denise had not changed anything of substance for Dave to hang on too and believe.

 

After several months of being apart from Dave, Denise realized she needed to make some serious changes.  She needed to make the changes for her. I worked with Denise on her self- limiting beliefs around her career using EFT (emotional freedom technique) and the Law of Attraction. Denise was quickly hired at Electronic Arts and attracted what was for her a job of a lifetime.

 

She called Dave and wanted to get together for coffee.  Denise wanted to get back together with Dave and thought that it was time for a meeting. Dave had decided that he had gone through too much with Denise and did not even want to be friends. Dave could barely be civil with Denise on the phone.  Things got really messy on the call and they ended the conversation with hurtful stinging words.

 

 This was very painful and difficult for Denise. Dave had moved on.  This is what had brought on the tears during the show. When Syesha sang the old song by Peggy Lee called “Fever” this started Denise crying.  She used to sing that song to Dave when they were dating. Through her tears and crying she lamented about how Dave was the “only one” for her and now she would be lonely and be by herself for the rest of her life. This is a natural feeling for a lot of women especially after a messy breakup.

 

We spent some time talking outside on the patio.  By this time in the show we could tell that Syesha would be voted off.  Darn!   I asked Denise, “What do you want?” She needed to have clear thinking about her future.  When you are clear on what you want and then ask the Universe for it, it can show up fast.

 

Denise wanted to know if she would ever find someone again.  Would there only be one true love in her life?  I could have said, “Denise you need more time. You could go back to Dave and show up with your fresh new self again and see what happens.”  But did she really want to be with someone who did not want to be with her?

 

We talked about how many opportunities there are out there to date new people. When you have the confidence and the belief in yourself you could attract many more partners.  Yes, there are more people out there who are more compatible and who can connect at deep personal level. There are some that will not be a match and there are some that will.  I suggested using the Law of Attraction deliberately and intentionally to bring Denise a partner who would be more of a match.  We are working through some of her limiting beliefs around dating and attracting a new partner that is more compatible. Denise decided to get herself out there and get visible and is now on a very popular dating website.

 

Copyright © 2008. Beverly Boston, Eve-olutionAtLast, All rights reserved. Beverly Boston specializes in working with women who are looking to attract a perfect partner, opportunities, and great friends. This is just the beginning. She can teach you the “how to” on using the Law of Attraction to attract the love of your life. To find out more and get her FREE reports simply visit http://LawOfAttractionClearlyExplained.com .

 

“Law of Attraction and Striking a Balance between Being Famous and Being Rich”

 

 

“Compulsive obsession with details on when the Law of Attraction will bring you the perfect partner…..”

It is funny how some small things can have such a huge impact.  Take the obsessing about when you are going to attract that perfect partner. You have made a list of what you don’t want and list of what you do want in a partner. 

 

 

Now where in the world are they?  They have yet to show up! 

 

 

My friend Joann is checking in every second of the day to see when that partner is going to show up.  Will they show up when she has had her hair and nails done?  Or when she is having a good hair day? When Joann is having a good hair day her smile can be seen from Vancouver to California she is so happy. 

 

 

We were at Toastmasters and she just gave a speech at the club and she was hoping “the one” was sitting in the audience and had heard her brilliant speech.  And then of course he will come up to her and introduce himself and the sparks will fly and then it will be happy ever after. 

 

 

After Toastmasters we went for coffee with our girlfriends to Starbucks. Joann went on and on about how a partner has yet to show up.  Then she went into details of how much time she had been putting into attracting a partner. She hinted that the only kinds of kinds of partners she had attracted were the kinds you can’t even tell your friends about. 

 

 

We all sat there waiting to hear about them.  She never did tell us.  Instead she went into more details of how she was doing all this work to attract a partner. She spent hours and hours on looking good, dressing up, posing with a perfect smile. We all love Joann as she works for Revlon and always looks picture perfect.  So when she was obsessing and placing every single hair in place some of her friends got worried. 

 

 

Think about where she was giving her energy, attention and focus too?  All we could hear was how she was obsessing about when the partner was going to show up.  

 

 

Based on some idea that she had she needed to know when he would show up.  This was causing her to act in a way that appears obsessive.  She was focusing on the “when” morning, noon and night. 

 

 

I think you are getting the idea here.  

 

 

I came back to table after mailing a letter and started to talk about how the Universe works.  The Law of Attraction is a funny thing.  It is very, very obedient.  It brings you exactly what it is that you are asking for.  If you are obsessing about the partner showing up that is what the Universe hears and that is what it brings you. More and more obsessing is what you will attract.  For some of you it could be the Universe, higher self, God or whatever fits for you.
 

 

 

Joann started to get the idea.  She promised to let go and let things play out.  She was willing to let the Law of Attraction take care of things. After 3 weeks of letting go and relaxing about when the partner will show up she has been on 4 dates.  She is getting closer and closer to her perfect match.  Now when she meets up with us she is focusing all of the things that were right with her date.  Of course this is what the Universe hears and it is bringing more of it to her. 

 

 

We all have a little bet going on the side that Joann will be seriously dating this summer due to that way things are going and the kinds of dates that she is attracting!

  

 

Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. All Rights Reserved. Beverly Boston. If you like this article and want to learn more about how I help women ages 50-55 also known as “prime time” women who are struggling because they continually seem to be attracting the wrong kinds of relationships read on. Some women seem to attract negative people or maybe even situations again and again and they don’t know why. I help women attract ideal relationships, friends, opportunities plus much, much more.  This is just really the beginning! For more information call right now while you are thinking about it. Call 604-727-4363.

 

 

 

“Take the struggle out of having a great friendship”

Let me paint to scenarios for you.  Maybe you have attracted a friend who pulls you down way down and makes you feel lousy. The one who criticizes you and everything you say and do.

 

Maybe you have run into this, you know the kind of friend that is mean, spiteful and hurtful. The one who says she doesn’t “mean it” or she was “just kidding”.

 

This is the Law of Attraction at work….  

 

What you have done is attracted a friend who wasn’t good for you.

 

Or

 

Maybe you have run into or attracted friends that lift you up. You feel on top of the world.  The one’s who you are proud to call your good friends and you share everything with. You know the kind that I am talking about. 

 

Just think! The girlfriend that knows the real you…. the real deal…..

 

You know that kind of girlfriend that is smart, funny, insightful, always there for you, and wears exactly the same size of shoes that you do.

 

Remember when you were in high school and you first met?  You two were inseparable.

 

You spotted each other across the seminar and were attracted immediately.  You talked and talked and then talked some more.  Everything was easy and fun.

 

You loved her because she had all the great qualities that a friend would have. Yes, the ones that we sometimes are reluctant to say out loud.  She loves you for you, warts and all.  She is always there through the laughter and tears.

 

This was the Law of Attraction at work.

 

You attracted that perfect friend.   

 

Give the two scenarios you may be thinking “how in the world does this happen?” This is the good friend versus the bad friend in your life and relationships.

 

Law of Attraction works like this….

 

Whatever you give you attention, energy and focus to will be what you will attract. 

 

This is whether it is good or bad for you.

 

Some of you maybe saying, “Why I would attract someone who is no good for me?” 

 

The key is to imagine and focus on more of what you want in a friend and how amazing your relationships will be rather than focusing so much on what you don’t want.

 

 

Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. All Rights Reserved. Beverly Boston. If you like this article and want to learn more about how I help women ages 50-55 also known as “prime time” women who are struggling because they continually seem to be attracting the wrong kinds of relationships read on. Some women seem to attract negative people or maybe even situations again and again and they don’t know why. But what I do is I really help women attract the ideal relationship, partner or opportunity. I help women attract ideal relationships, friends, opportunities plus much, much more.  This is just really the beginning! For more information  call 604-727-4363.

Call now while you are thinking about it.