“Using the Law of Attraction and how to go from vague idea to a concrete list to attract an ideal partner”

By the time you finish reading this, you will have learned how to create a concrete list to attract an ideal partner using the Law of Attraction deliberately.

 

Diane called me about how to attract her ideal partner.  She had created lists, and more lists of how she dreamed her ideal partner would be like.

 

She dated many times and yet this ideal partner seemed to never show up. She tried everything but the Law of Attraction.  Little did she know she was already using the Law of Attraction?

 

Just not deliberately!

 

Can you imagine how frustrated she was when she was continually attracting the wrong partner?

 

Drift back in time when this may have happened to you?

 

You’re probably wondering how to use the Law of Attraction deliberately just like Diane was when she called me. Let me ask you,” If you had the concrete steps to use would you feel like now you could attract the perfect partner?”

 

I can here a big, loud “yes” just like Diane did.

 

If you’re like me you want it step by step. The more you read this article, the more you feel like there is hope for you to attract your perfect partner.

 

Here we go….

 

Go way back in time when you were first dating.  Make a very, very detailed list of what you didn’t want in a partner. Yes, I said what you didn’t want in a partner.

 

You know that ones, they didn’t call back, or always showed up late, or still living with their mother, and maybe never offered to buy dinner.

 

 Make a list of the partners as well, even though there are some of the memories you would rather forget.

 

Stick with me for a minute.

 

I am talking about a really, really long list. Maybe include as much as 30 items on that list of what you don’t want in a relationship as you think about the list of partners that you dated.

 

Get really, really clear. Move forward up today as you are writing the list and the last person that you dated.

 

This may take awhile but just imagine the results that you will get when completing these steps.

 

Choose partners that were not the best match.  You know the ones.  You told your friends about over and over again how lousy and bad they were for you.  We are focusing on what wasn’t working in those relationships.  Some of you may have a few of those kinds of partners to choose from to create your list.

 

I know you are thinking how long are we focusing on what you don’t want?

 

The good news is that we are now done with the list of what you don’t want. Keep this list as we will still need it a little bit later on.

 

Now go forward in time when writing this comprehensive list will have a big pay off.   

 

Hang in there its coming!

 

Now we are getting concrete here.

 

Picture yourself with your ideal partner.  Now that you have that “yummy” feeling take look at the list of what you don’t want and create a list of what you do want from each of the items on the don’t want list.

 

Some of you might say “I wasn’t a priority” in my relationship.  You would add this to the “don’t want” list.  On your “do want” list some of you might say “I am a priority in this relationship”. Keep writing and complete this list for each item that you wrote.

 

Some of you are feeling better already.

 

Now here is the big secret!

 

When you are giving your energy attention and focus to what you do want you will get more of it.  By feeling how it feels when you already have what you want will speed up the Law of Attraction process. So keep this list in front of you and read it often with emotion and feeling. I mean really, really feeling it.

 

Remember to focus on the list that you do want. Watch how fast things change.

 

Hang onto your hat!

 

By knowing this information and using it you can start to transform the way you deliberately and intentionally attract your ideal partner.

 

Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. All Rights Reserved. Beverly Boston. If you like this article and want to learn more about how I help women ages 50-55 also known as “prime time” women who are struggling because they continually seem to be attracting the wrong kinds of relationships read on. Some women seem to attract negative people or maybe even situations again and again and they don’t know why. But what I do is I really help women attract the ideal relationship, partner or opportunity. I help women attract ideal relationships, friends, opportunities plus much, much more.  This is just really the beginning! For more information  call 604-727-4363

 

“The Shocking Truth about why you don’t have a great relationship using the Law of Attraction”

 

 

 

As you start reading the beginning of this blog you’ll find yourself shaking your head and saying “Yes, yes and yes again and again.”

 

Jane said she wanted something different in her relationships.  Things just weren’t right. But she didn’t know how to do things differently.

 

Okay! She did have a couple of options around dating. Her friends were always setting her up. She just seemed to always find something wrong with the dates.

 

 She wanted to keep on dating even though these dates were not a match.

 

She just wanted to be in a relationship. She has the career, the house, the car and friends, however something important was missing.

 

Jane didn’t know if she had what it takes to succeed in the dating world. She tried the Law of Attraction and like a lot of people didn’t have the “how” to use the Law of Attraction to attract deliberately and intentionally.

 

After all she had watched the movie” The Secret” 16 times.  Surely that counted didn’t it?

 

Are you ready for this?

 

Here is what I asked Jane and all of the other women that I meet through emails, calls, and the Internet.

 

“Are you confused or do you really, really know what it is that you do want in your relationship?”

 

Most women including Jane, kind of hesitated, and took their time and then in a very quiet voice said “I do know what I want it is just scary to say it out loud.  I want a relationship that makes me sing, and want to dance in the streets. A relationship that uplifts me mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.”

 

“I want to tell my friends about it and share stories”.

 

Jane needed to make some drastic changes as to how she was using the Law of Attraction.

 

Her “confusion” at making a big change in her relationships is more likely her fear of the truth.

You probably are thinking that being “confused” is a lot less harsh of an emotion than being scared and saying it out loud.

 

You are probably wondering what I am talking about here. Once you admit your fears you are faced with some deep truths about those fears.

 

Just imagine some of the truths we are talking about?

 

Maybe there is the fear of how to get clear as you had so much contrast (what you don’t want) in your relationships, or how come I keep attracting the same kinds of negative relationships?

 

Or

 

I have the want and the desire so how do I allow the right relationship?

 

How do I intentionally attract my ideal relationship?

 

Or

 

How to make the Law of Attraction deliberately work for you?

 

How to learn what the steps are?

 

How to use tips and tools so that you can use to get different results?

   

Imagine what would happen when these truths are present in your life

 

Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. All Rights Reserved. Beverly Boston. If you like this article and want to learn more about how I help women ages 50-55 also known as “prime time” women who are struggling because they continually seem to be attracting the wrong kinds of relationships read on. Some women seem to attract negative people or maybe even situations again and again and they don’t know why. But what I do is I really help women attract the ideal relationship, partner or opportunity. I help women attract ideal relationships, friends, opportunities plus much, much more.  This is just really the beginning! For more information  call 604-727-4363

 

“Open Letter to Women who know what they want in life and some of you just don’t know how to get it. Stop being a prisoner! Some of you have had it and can’t stand it any more!”

 

This letter is being written by a rebel.  A brand new one at that!  My mission is to take women who are fun, passionate, bright, and ready for change and show them how to get what they want in their relationships, partners and opportunities.

 

 Some of you women will want to be free of negative people, relationships, situations and partners. 

 

Some of you may have lived this way for a very long time. Some of you may have attracted relationships that were not a match. They might have been negative and pulling you down.

 

 Or you might have been in relationships were they were unavailable, insensitive and seldom made you a priority.  You were sincere in your efforts to give everything you could to these relationships. Things just seemed to be going south.

 

 The Law of Attraction thing was working here that was for sure.

 

Maybe after a while you just gave up on relationships of any kind.  You did all that you could do and some of you still kept attracting negative people or relationships. Wishing and hoping was all that was left.  Somehow inside you knew there had to be a better way for you. 

 

Let me tell you a little secret.

 

You have other options to manifest your desires and attract perfect relationships and much, much more. There is an easier way.  I will tell it to you in a second. First you must understand you are the source of the experiences that you are having.  Sometimes that is a tough one to accept, but it’s true. We attract things in to our life unconsciously, and then declare we didn’t do it. 

 

Now as you are becoming more aware of your inner power, you can begin to consciously create circumstances. You seldom do it over night, or master it in this lifetime, but you can begin now.

 

How?

 

 I want you women ages 50-55 known as “prime time” women to stand up, take on a new perspective and learn how to use the Law of Attraction in a whole new way. In a way that will bring you the kinds of relationships that are a perfect match for you.  Attracting the perfect opportunities and friends.

 

It’s pretty easy, and once you get the steps you can start to master them. 

Forget about spending thousands and thousand of dollars on courses and classes that are the same old of stuff, thinking positive and doing affirmations. If you want to see permanent changes, and springboard to success learn to use the Law of Attraction and attract all that you do want

 

Dare something worthy!

 

In other words, if you aren’t happy with your life, find a way to be victorious over yourself. Have the desire to improve yourself.  As you improve, your world improves. 

 

Ask yourself, “What do you want to improve in yourself?”  Limiting beliefs? Attracting negative situations? Or attracting negative people?

 

Ask yourself, “What do I want?”

 

Spend a moment and take a look at your lives.  I mean really take a good deep look. Imagine what your life could look like in a year? In five years?  Refocusing on what you do want will take you in the direction of what you want.

 

Take the time to think about what you really want.  Discovery is more than a channel. Sometimes it is a reoccurring theme in your life, and you are attracting the same experiences over and over again.  And they are ones you rather live without.

 

Break the model.  Start attracting what you do want by focusing on what you want. Freedom and power come from knowing what you want without being a prisoner to what you want.

 

What would make your heart sing?

What would make you smile right now thinking about it?

What would make you dance in the streets?

 

Most of all what would you want if you could have anything, anything at all?

 

I won’t entice anyone who feels she won’t come willingly.  Some of you will stay right where you are in the comfort of your predictability of what you are attracting right now. But if your heart has yet to sing, and you rarely smile when you think about your relationships, and you have never danced in the streets you can’t say that I didn’t let you know.

 

Copyright © 2008 Beverly Boston. All Rights Reserved. Beverly

Boston. I help women ages 50-55 also known as “prime time” women who are struggling because they continually seem to be attracting the wrong kinds of relationships. Some women seem to attract negative people or maybe even situations again and again and they don’t know why. But what I do is I really help women attract the ideal relationship or partner or opportunity. You know what?  Have you ever seen the movie called “The Secret”? Oh! well that movie talked about the Law of Attraction and a lot of people I work with really want to know about it but they don’t know where to go, so I show them exactly how to do this and how to apply it to their life. I help women attract ideal relationships, friends, partners, opportunities plus much, much more.  This is just really the beginning! For more information visit beverlyboston.wordpress.com or call 604-727-4363